profundis: (Judge Judy)
profundis ([personal profile] profundis) wrote2005-10-27 01:58 pm
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Just..damn.

Chatting with a guy on 411 and he informs me that his agenda after work is to have a 3-way with two married guys. "Married to each other?" I ask, since he lives near enough to both Massachusetts and Canada for that to be the case. "Nope, to two different women" he says. Nice. I hold out the hope that at least the good ladies have given their blessing to this tryst but alas, he admits to a clandestine rendezvous. WTF? This is a cute guy - he should easily be able to get laid without playing homewrecker to TWO households simultaneously. It's one thing to do it accidentally, in the heat of the moment unexpectedly or for mistaken reasons, but to be so conscious and premeditated about it...Now I've lost all interest in him.
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[identity profile] planecrashcub.livejournal.com 2005-10-27 11:40 am (UTC)(link)
Well.. I actually met my last long term boyfriend while he was married to his ex-wife... And no regrets on my end... He is one of the best people I've ever met in my life.

[identity profile] profundis.livejournal.com 2005-10-27 11:49 am (UTC)(link)
Meeting someone on their way out of the closet and being "the other woman" are not necessarily the same thing. There are plenty of gay guys in a marriage trap - that isn't what I take issue with, its an agenda of cheating with them /on them. I'm not claiming to be pure and innocent, just a lil wiser for my mistakes.

[identity profile] planecrashcub.livejournal.com 2005-10-27 12:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Well.. Thats definitely how we started. And then caught. I personally have a thing for "straight" guys... I guess I just don't see the the big deal about it... If I could hook up with two "married" guys... I think I'd be all about it. hahha

[identity profile] profundis.livejournal.com 2005-10-27 12:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Well I don't have any issues about getting with str8 guys - I don't care if a guy is gay, str8 or bi, as long as he's for real. The big deal is the other person that you are helping him cheat on - whether a wife or partner etc - and their feelings about it. Would you not expect your spouse to be faithful to you?

[identity profile] planecrashcub.livejournal.com 2005-10-27 12:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess on my end... It would just be the type of relationship that I have set up... Tho I know my next relationship will be monogomous... But I'm just ready for that...

But on the other end.. I guess I'm just evil... And figure its between them and theirs...

I guess my biggest point is that I would never really snub my nose at someone who is into that.... Cuz I don't see the big deal about it.. and think its pretty freakin hot... hah
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