Just..damn.

[profundis]

Chatting with a guy on 411 and he informs me that his agenda after work is to have a 3-way with two married guys. "Married to each other?" I ask, since he lives near enough to both Massachusetts and Canada for that to be the case. "Nope, to two different women" he says. Nice. I hold out the hope that at least the good ladies have given their blessing to this tryst but alas, he admits to a clandestine rendezvous. WTF? This is a cute guy - he should easily be able to get laid without playing homewrecker to TWO households simultaneously. It's one thing to do it accidentally, in the heat of the moment unexpectedly or for mistaken reasons, but to be so conscious and premeditated about it...Now I've lost all interest in him.

Comments

[injustifiiable.livejournal.com]

OMG That icon is perfect!

[xkot.livejournal.com]

This reminds me of every time someone says "he can't be gay, he has a wife and kids." The image many people have in their heads of marriage and the reality of it can be amazingly different.

I tend to agree with your feelings about the situation you've described. Premediated plans to violate the rules of a relationship (straight, gay, married, dating, whatever) are not sexy.

[planecrashcub.livejournal.com]

Well.. I actually met my last long term boyfriend while he was married to his ex-wife... And no regrets on my end... He is one of the best people I've ever met in my life.

[huffdaddyatl.livejournal.com]

I've done (and will probably do) worse things, but in the spirit and
definition of discretion I've not talked about it (let alone bragged
about it.)

um...

Until now.

d'OH!

[dawdle.livejournal.com]

Not to agree (or disagree) with what he's doing, but unless he seduced them into the threeway, those homes wuz wrecked long before he got there. He's just taking advantage of that.

[jefferzephyr.livejournal.com]

!! =-p

[42degrees.livejournal.com]

So what do you think the second date will be like?

[johnspiff.livejournal.com]

sigh bear411, the bane of peoples existance