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Just..damn.
Chatting with a guy on 411 and he informs me that his agenda after work is to have a 3-way with two married guys. "Married to each other?" I ask, since he lives near enough to both Massachusetts and Canada for that to be the case. "Nope, to two different women" he says. Nice. I hold out the hope that at least the good ladies have given their blessing to this tryst but alas, he admits to a clandestine rendezvous. WTF? This is a cute guy - he should easily be able to get laid without playing homewrecker to TWO households simultaneously. It's one thing to do it accidentally, in the heat of the moment unexpectedly or for mistaken reasons, but to be so conscious and premeditated about it...Now I've lost all interest in him.
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I'm sure we will all have our screw-ups, dude. It was the casual braggin about it that turned me off. Adultery / cheating is not cool - I'm disappointed in how little concern I hear for the unknowing partner /spouse in such ongoing affairs when guys talk about them. The times I've overstepped, I've always felt manipulated, guilty, or some combination of those afterwards - not all happy to advertise it - much less make a practice of it.